It's not something that is easy to tell someone, and it's not easy for someone to hear. But sometimes it needs to be said.
I'm just throwing it out there, that you aren't a good friend. I know that may hurt to hear, but you really aren't ever there when needed.And their response?
I think you might be rightThanks Sherlock, I'm pretty sure I told you that already...
I know you don't want to hear this but i don't think i can be the kind of friend you need